What is a Dom?

A Dom is 1st & foremost a caring male. His choice is to be a Dom, he is One who cares for, nurtures, shapes, & molds his submissive into the image He thinks she should become. He sees in her someone who can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He often believes more in her, than she believes in herself. His love for her goes without question. He loves her as much for who she is, as for what she can become with His guidance. she is His prized possession. a Dom's eyes will light up when she comes into a room & take great pride in her successes. After all, He helped to create her. She holds the most tender part of His heart & has greatest power to hurt Him.  This love would not be possible without respect. A Dom needs to feel pride in his girl... to know she can hold her own in the outside world & still submit to Him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she gives Him & takes great pains to increase it’s value. It is important to Him to know she can be with any man & she chooses to be with Him.