Saturday, 20 August 2016

A submissive go's shopping

So the cost of things keeps going up, food, power bills, car tax, etc
and well the cost of whips and chains is not getting no cheaper... but can you do D/s on the cheap and be safe

only thing I don't suggest skimping on is a collar :-
1. It's round your neck, chocking hazard
2. it's important.

But honestly anything else can be got on the cheap with a little thought.

So lets say you want that cuff and chain set

Ever thought of your local hardware store
clips for cuffs and linking chain together - key belt clips

How about the pet store
some of the cat collars make cute cuffs (and there hard to get out of)

local engravers
name tags (you will need to git your teeth here if going for your own name or Owners)

Being handy with the sewing needle or the hammer and nails always helps
adding a few hooks to the wall and ceiling joins also can go along way
(hang pictures on after to hide them)
naked hammer swinging can be such a turn on to your Master or Mistress if done right

Ebay is another good place for picking up things, just remember

cost = quality
if it's cheap its not going to be the best... think before parting cash

we made a body chain, round middle to writs and ankles for 25 pound all in, not the 125 pound we saw listed and it was custom made to fit me with simple handyman skills and tools we own.

so next time your out shopping think dirty you will be surprised
you will never look at chain link the same again

be safe, have fun

Friday, 19 August 2016

my rules


Commands from my Mistress

  • Silence: Lower eyes and be silent.
  • Present: Remove clothes, kneel with knees spread wide, back straight and head up, and eyes lowered, wrists crossed behind your back then say; "Presenting Mistress". Wait patiently for examination or instructions.
  • Restrict: Simply cross wrists behind back.
  • Rest: Kneeling, Sit on heels, legs spread and hands (palms up) on top of legs.
  • Submit: Kneeling; Sit on heels, lean forward until head touches the ground. Place arms overhead with palms up and wrists crossed.
  • Expose Submit: Kneel then sit back on heels, lean back until your back rests on the ground and keeping legs wide apart, place your hands over your head with wrists crossed.
  • Resume: Cancels Previous Command.

Basic rules

i will :-

· Always ask permission to cum....
· Never be disrespectful to my Mistress or others.
· Not submit to being passed around as a sexual favour to other Doms.
· Always respect my Mistress and always address her as Mistress.
· Remain constantly alert attempting to anticipate my Mistress desire.
· Follow instructions exactly and immediately.
            · Be silent unless spoken to, never raise my voice above a whisper unless Commanded.
            · Keep my hands by my side or in the restrict pose unless i am using them.

Safety rules

i will :-

· Do not allow permanent injury, scaring, cutting, burning.
· Never allow myself to be struck on ovaries or kidneys.
· Always use the safe word if while locked up my limbs become cold or numb.
· Never allow myself to be hit with whip or crop on the tailbone, head or neck.
Above all i will

1. Be Patient

2. Be Humble.

3. Be Open

4. Communicate

5. Be Honest

Lying or being less than candid can only lead to problems, as my mistress will base the scene on inaccurate information. Besides causing problems, it can be dangerous.

6. Be Vulnerable

7. Be Realistic

8. Be really Submissive

9. Be Healthy

Update and return

wow time has past and i have not been here, but i return now, with news, i feel much better now my illness has passed.

i no longer have a Master, we parted our ways after a death in His family and He did not have have the time or the willingness to carry on our life as it was, to my mind He moved on after all as i have said before this is not for everyone and some change i do still love Him and talk to Him from time to time showing the respect that He should be shown.  

Now have a Mistress such a change such new things to learn and new ways to explore myself and joy and freedom of being Her's, i love her deeply and we plan to be together forever be this D/s or vanilla

I will be posting more words and thoughts soon, this i promise i have some things on my mind all ready and will put these thoughts down and bring them to you soon

please feel free to message me here i will get back to you, please be respectful i am spoken for and taken,

"To me, the collar around my neck,
the weight of the steel is the only thing,
i need to know that Mistress loves me and
will forever hold more weight than a ring on my finger
or a piece of paper from a government office."